Showing posts with label Marriage. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Marriage. Show all posts

Wednesday, July 8, 2009

Going Through the Motions...with no Emotion!

Almost all marriages begin with romance. Somewhere down the road it fades. Daily life often leaves little time and less energy. Thus, we begin to settle for comfort over excitement. To climb into bed and snuggle up is easier than lighting candles, turning on music and pursuing physical intimacy...especially after a long day at work. Exhaustion plays a huge role in marital lethargy. It becomes a trigger for the emotional disconnect between spouses. The disconnect happens slowly over time. One day you wake up and realize you've been going through the motions and it's caused separation and loneliness in your heart.

For most couples, their marriage is not something they would label "troubled" or "bad." It just "is." It exists, but it doesn't live.

I am here to tell you that your marriage can not just live, but thrive again! An old relationship will never be "new" but it can be renewed. The feeling that is lacking right now can flourish in your heart again.

Spouse In My House can help you re-ignite a flame you thought burned out a long time ago.

Are you ready to add emotion to your marital motions?
Marriage is supposed to be the most intimate of all human relationships. It's designed to share the good, the bad, the pretty and the ugly in every aspect of life. It was foundationally formed to endure the test of time. And with a little help and a lot of prayer, it can!

On the intimacy scale is your marriage a one or a ten? Or do you, like most couples, fall somewhere in the stagnant inbetween? Do you suffer from what I call “the Spouse in my House” syndrome.

Do you feel your spouse shares your home, but not your heart? Do you have the sensation that intimacy is so close yet discouragingly unattainable? Is there an emptiness that comes with knowing everything about someone and not having anything new or exciting to say to them? Are you bored in your relationship? Has it become predictable and mundane? Are you too exhausted to even want more? Have you lost hope in the possibility of your marriage improving?

Spouse In My House is designed to address marital emotions and conflicts and open your eyes to the posibility that your marriage can not only be salvaged, but feel exciting again!